Hello, geraint
I suppose you wish to use the spare sockets on the lighting boards, as i think factory fitment towing installations do. I'm not sure about your polo, but there're usually markings on the plastic casing to identify the pinouts. They're in german, but looking at one for a golf, they are BR (Brems) for brake lamps, BL re/- for right indicator, BL li/re for left, and 58re/- and 58li/re for tail lamps, leaving NES as rear fog lamp and RF as reverse.
Yours, david.